Supporting Family Health Care Decisions

Personal Stories

Most New Yorkers are unaware of the law regarding medical decision making for incapacitated patients. This page will tell some of the true stories of patients and families that illustrate the problems.

Tony's Mother

Tony has asked that his last name be kept private

Tony is a biology teacher whose mother was diagnosed with Alzheimer's at the age of 94. He and his wife took care of her in her own home as long as they could and then put her in a nursing home. His mother stopped eating and the nursing home physician told Tony they would have to put a feeding tube in her. On the advice of the geriatric specialist who had diagnosed his mother, Tony refused to allow the feeding tube. He was intimidated and threatened by the nursing home. He finally hired a private nurse to feed his mother and she gained weight. The following letter, written in 1999, describes the treatment Tony's mother and other patients received in the nursing home. The letter was written for a NY newspaper but not published.

"My mother, 94 years of age, had to be placed in a nursing home in Queens, NY. She had Alzheimer's disease and was also physically disabled. Every conceivable attempt was made to keep her at home but she was beyond home care. She eventually died in the nursing home.

"The nursing home administration made every attempt to surgically implant a feeding tube into my mother's stomach. They even went so far as to intimidate us by threatening to force us out of the facility unless we agreed to implant the surgical feeding tube. Two private physicians were familiar with my mother's condition. One was dead set against this procedure and the other felt it really wouldn't make a difference one way or the other. We absolutely refused to sign for a feeding tube. I hired a private nurse to feed her and she recuperated just fine. In fact, she regained the weight she had lost. The nursing home did not supply an aide to feed her as this was obviously too costly. I can only imagine how many helpless residents are getting unnecessary feeding tubes.

"My understanding is that when a feeding tube is used, the nursing home is reimbursed at a higher rate. The rationale for the higher rate is that the resident requires more time and attention from the aides and nurses. In fact, the opposite is true. Less time is required as the feeding tube patient is fed like a flower is fed water. The facility gains in two ways. It receives more money and uses less aide time than if the patient was fed by mouth.

"Since I spent so much time at the facility, caring for mom, I saw things others did not. Patients were neglected. Some had to yell for someone to help them. My mother's roommate was very happy to see me as she had no family to help her and I always did what I could for her. I saw too many patients fall and really injure themselves because the help was not available. I witnessed my mother get the wrong medication as there was too much nurse turnover - especially in the evening and on weekends. I also saw safety hazards.

"It was an overwhelming time for me and my wife. We cannot forget. Prior to mom's nursing home admission, I had read articles in Consumer Reports describing the nursing home conditions in our country. It also mentioned that they have a very powerful political lobby. If we as a society ignore and do not speak out on the situation, we will all, directly or indirectly be affected."

Commentary

The story Tony tells is all too common in nursing homes. Many nursing home residents are declared to be candidates for feeding tubes because of poor oral intake. As Tony discovered, this is often because of the labor and time intensive nature of spoon feeding. Many impaired elderly patients do just fine with assistance with meals, but wind up with feeding tubes because of their ease of maintnance.

Other patients get feeding tubes because their total intake drops below some level set by the Department of Health (DOH). Nursing homes are acutely aware of the regulatory power of the NYS DOH which scrutinizes medical records in detail (especially weight records and calorie counts). Nursing home administrators know the DOH can make life miserable for them and even shut them down.

Other patients have feeding tubes placed because of aspiration pneumonia. Despite the absence of evidence that tube feedings prevent aspiration pneunonia, this is the usual nursing home response. Ironically, the argument often made against decisions to forgo feeding tubes is that such refusal would cause "starvation." If starvation is the act of preventing someone from eating, this is exactly what tube feedings result in, since they permit the nursing home to completely stop giving the patient oral feeds (deemed to be "unsafe"). Sometimes this decision to withhold food by mouth occurs simply in response to a swallowing study ("modified barium swallow") even in the absence of clinically apparent aspiration.

Often this debate about feeding tubes and surrogate decision making for incapacitated patients is characterized as a "right to die" debate. The truth is: it is simply bad medicine to require a feeding tube in many of these cases. They don't accomplish what people assume they will, and they cause suffering for patient and family alike. The simple fact is that many 94 year old patients die no matter what we do, and their failure to eat hearty is the result of their dying, not the cause.

Jack P. Freer, MD, FACP
Associate Professor of Clinical Medicine
Division of Geriatrics/Gerontology
University at Buffalo


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